Socialized Schools

     I work for a virtual charter school as a special education teacher during the day and I tutor after school and in the evenings.  My husband works with home school and virtual school students during the day.  He assist them with their course work as well as teach courses as needed.  Many times students who attend a virtual school or home school are asked, "How do you make friends?" "What about the prom?"  "How do you socialize?"  Here is a shocker, school is not for socialization. Friends and socialization are a by product of school. The purpose of school is to receive an education. It is nice to make friends and socialize along the way, but a child can learn social skills at home.  Most children are involved in activities outside of school, including church, sports, civic organizations, etc.
     Think for a moment the reason you go to work.  Do you go to work to make friends?  Did you choose your career because you thought it would be the quickest and best way for you to increase the number of friends you have on facebook?  Most of us choose our careers and go to our jobs out of necessity.  Many of us may enjoy working and want to continue working.  The main purpose of a job for most people is to make money to pay bills.  We also use our money for entertainment.  I have never paid my employer for letting me work.  I work and my employer gives me a pay check.  The purpose of school is to prepare people for the world of work and create productive citizens.
     Some believe school should be enjoyable and create well rounded individuals.  Others believe school is just another requirement like paying taxes.  While others believe academics should be the main focus of an educational institution.  There are many views on how to educate, but the purpose of education and school should not be as broad.  The purpose of a school is to educate people.  School and education is what you choose to put into it.  If you want a school to improve your child's social skills and character then put him in a school that has a good character education program, but please do not complain about his math skills if your priority is for him to have a good time in school. 
     Our education system is a direct reflection of our values.  If you value something you will take care of it.  We need to take care of our education system and value education if we want the system to improve.  It is what we make it.  You make the choice of what type of education you would like for your child to receive and be an advocate for your child's educational needs.  Let your local school board and representatives know your values on education.  Talk to your friends.  Find the right school for your child.  Many states now have school choice in form of charter schools and some have a voucher system.  Most of all, let your child know the value of a good education. 

Becky Matthews, M.Ed.